Welcome to the June edition of The Singles’ World. In the last edition, I discussed peer influence and modern culture as major contributors to the prevalence of infidelity in society today, in addition to the other causes previously examined. The Bible expressly forbids adultery, yet it has become a common sin among both Christians and unbelievers. Sadly, those who ought to be the light of the world have become entangled in the very sin that should characterise only the ungodly. Consequently, many Christian marriages are collapsing, while children from such broken homes are left to endure deep emotional and psychological trauma. This also gives unbelievers an opportunity to ridicule our God and discredit the message we preach. This teaching is therefore necessary to remind us of the importance of shunning every form of infidelity so that we may enjoy God’s purpose for marriage. In this edition, I shall discuss another major cause of infidelity. It is my prayer that this teaching will be a blessing to every one of us, in the name of Jesus Christ.

Spiritual Weakness

 Behind every sin forbidden by God is a spiritual battle. From the Garden of Eden, the devil has sought to influence both believers and unbelievers to act contrary to the Word of God. Even when a person sincerely desires to obey God, Satan seeks to entice and deceive them into disobedience so that they may incur God’s judgement.

The disobedience of Adam and Eve was instigated by the serpent, a symbol of the devil. Samson, who possessed an extraordinary ministry of deliverance, was influenced into violating his Nazirite covenant. As a result, he lost both his ministry and his life. In 1 Chronicles 21:1, the Bible tells us that Satan provoked David to number Israel, bringing God’s judgement upon the nation. Likewise, Peter was influenced by Satan when he opposed the suffering and death of Jesus Christ (Matthew 16:23). Jesus rebuked Satan rather than Peter because He recognised the true source of Peter’s words. Judas Iscariot presents another example. Luke 22:3 tells us that Satan entered into him, leading him to betray the Lord Jesus Christ.

The Scriptures contain numerous examples demonstrating that Satan is the instigator of sin. Human beings become his instruments when they yield to his influence, and whether they obey or resist depends largely upon their spiritual condition. This is why 1 John 3:8 declares, “He that committeth sin is of the devil.” Satan’s chief objective is to oppose the Word of God and to lead people into rebellion against Him. Sexual immorality is no exception.

From my understanding of demonology, sexual sins such as fornication, adultery, uncleanness, homosexuality, lesbianism, bestiality, rape, and incest are often fuelled by demonic powers, particularly those commonly described as marine spirits. When such sins are committed, spiritual bonds may be formed that place individuals under demonic oppression and bondage. For this reason, the devil relentlessly targets Christian marriages, and infidelity has become one of his most effective weapons for wreaking havoc in Christian homes.

A decline in one’s prayer life and personal devotion leads to moral vulnerability (Galatians 5:16). When you become spiritually weak, your spiritual sensitivity is diminished. Your ability to recognize temptation and discern the warning signs of infidelity becomes impaired. Spiritual weakness therefore leaves many Christians vulnerable to adultery.

Many Christian men and women were spiritually vibrant while they were single but gradually became spiritually cold after marriage. Others remained spiritually strong for a time before becoming lukewarm through the pressures of life. Common excuses include heavy workloads, busyness, family responsibilities, workplace pressures, and stress. Yet none of these justifies neglecting our relationship with God.

When personal prayer and Bible study become burdensome, when attending church services becomes optional, when serving in the church feels inconvenient, when you begin to sleep spiritually instead of remaining watchful, when you walk in the flesh rather than in the Spirit, when serving God becomes wearisome, and when eternity is no longer in view, you gradually become desensitized to sin. You may even begin to flirt with temptation without any sense of conviction. The devil is always looking for opportunities to attack believers when they are spiritually weak (2 Samuel 17:2). It is during such seasons of weakness that he seeks to ensnare God’s people through sexual immorality. This is why Jesus commanded us to “watch and pray” (Matthew 26:41). Likewise, we are instructed to “be sober, be vigilant” (1 Peter 5:8). These are essential spiritual disciplines that help us resist the temptation of adultery. The battle against infidelity is not merely physical; it is profoundly spiritual.

Ephesians 6:12 reminds us that we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers, while 2 Corinthians 10:4 teaches that the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty through God. Christian couples must therefore remain spiritually alert and never allow the fire upon their altar to go out. When spiritual discernment is lost, deception becomes easy.

Instead of rebuking an agent of darkness sent to seduce you, or fleeing from a Delilah determined to destroy your spiritual strength, you may find yourself entertaining the very temptation you should resist. Spiritual weakness makes a believer an easy target for the enemy.

May the Lord renew your strength so that you will not grow weary. Every doorway that spiritual weakness has opened for the spirit of sexual immorality to attack your marriage is closed in the name of Jesus Christ. I bind every spirit of infidelity and sexual immorality operating in your home, in the name of Jesus Christ. Every ungodly spiritual bond established through sexual immorality between you and the kingdom of darkness is broken in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen. By the grace of God, we will continue from here next month. Please do not forget to send me your comments and testimonies. If you are not born again, please surrender your life to Jesus Christ today. Tomorrow may be too late. Until then, God bless you. Amen.

Pastor Jide Ajidahun

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Welcome to the March edition of Singles’ World. In the last edition, I discussed lack of intimacy as one of the causes of adultery and also proposed biblical solutions to it.

As stated at the beginning of this series, this study has become necessary in view of the increasing prevalence of adultery and divorce in society today—including within Christian families, which ought to serve as examples to the world. Sadly, even the families of ministers of God are not exempt, as cases of infidelity and divorce are becoming more common. This unfortunate trend casts the Church of God in a negative light and makes it more difficult for unbelievers to embrace the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Christians are expected to be true disciples of Jesus Christ, living according to His teachings. Although believers are not immune to life’s challenges, adultery—being a work of the flesh—should not be found among Christian families.

In this edition, I wish to discuss another cause of adultery. It is my prayer that the Lord will grant us receptive hearts to receive the truth of His Word, in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Spiritual Weakness / Broken Fellowship with God

Apart from lack of intimacy, spiritual weakness—manifested through a broken or declining fellowship with God—is a major cause of adultery. When devotion declines in the home, moral sensitivity also declines.

One of the key antidotes to sin is walking in the Spirit, as stated in Galatians 5:16: “Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.” This implies that when we are sensitive to the voice and promptings of the Holy Spirit—our Guide and Teacher—it becomes difficult to live carelessly in sin, including adultery.

This underscores the importance of maintaining regular devotion to God. When we neglect or trivialise our quiet time and daily fellowship with God, and allow worldly or carnal activities to replace it, we gradually push aside the influence of the Holy Spirit and give room for the enemy to take control.

It is in the place of prayer and devotion that we receive divine warnings against impending temptations. Through consistent, reverent, and meditative study of the Word of God, the Holy Spirit speaks personally to us—highlighting specific Scriptures and directing our attention to what we need for each day.

The Holy Spirit knows:

• The challenges ahead

• The hidden dangers along our path

• The “valleys,” “hills,” and “rough roads” before us

• The individuals who may become sources of temptation

• The relationships and transactions that could endanger our lives

• The enemies disguised as friends

• The “wolves in sheep’s clothing” that threaten our lives and ministry

• Even opportunities, favours, or promotions that may weaken our resistance to sin

When we fail to maintain close fellowship with God through the Holy Spirit, our moral sensitivity becomes weakened. We begin to tolerate what we once rejected because the Word of God forbids it. We start to embrace what we previously condemned.

The boundaries we once respected—especially in our interactions with the opposite sex—begin to fade. We begin to misuse the grace of God as a licence for sin. Actions that once troubled our conscience no longer do so.

As stated in Romans 13:14, we begin to “make provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.” Scripture also warns in Ecclesiastes 10:8 that “whoso breaketh an hedge, a serpent shall bite him.”

For example:

• You once refused to give or receive seductive compliments from a married person

• You avoided inappropriate physical contact (such as hugging or pecking)

• You avoided secret dealings with someone of the opposite sex

• You rejected worldly influences and suggestive dressing

However, as your devotion declines, your perception changes. You no longer see things as the Holy Spirit does. What once repulsed you now becomes acceptable, and your spiritual guard is lowered.

This explains why King Saul, though once anointed by God, consulted the witch of Endor when he could no longer hear from God. It also explains why David cried out in Psalm 51:11, pleading with God not to take His Holy Spirit from him.

When you are far from the Holy Spirit, you are naturally drawn towards the world, and sin becomes inevitable. James 4:8 declares, “Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you.” The reverse is also true—when you draw away from God, you distance yourself from His protection.

In a world where Satan is actively seeking whom he may devour, your safety is not guaranteed outside of close fellowship with God.

Today, many Christians are preoccupied with careers and worldly pursuits, neglecting their relationship with God. Prayer, Bible study, and regular church attendance have become burdens rather than opportunities for spiritual growth.

One of the greatest safeguards against adultery is a strong and consistent fellowship with God.

When you notice:

• A decline in your devotion

• A weakening love for God

• Reduced commitment to His service

You must rise and fight the good fight of faith so that sin—including adultery—does not gain access to your life.

When you walk in the Spirit, you will not fulfill the lusts of the flesh. Adultery, like every other sin, is avoidable. While it may be tolerated among unbelievers, it remains an abomination in Christian homes.

May the Lord help you to walk in the Spirit and to prioritize your devotion and fellowship with Him on a daily basis, in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

By the grace of God, we will continue from here next month. Please do not forget to send me your comments and testimonies. If you are not born again, please surrender your life to Jesus Christ today. Tomorrow may be too late. Until then, God bless you. Amen.

Pastor Jide Ajidahun

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