The Questions Singles Ask 21 – September ’20 Edition

THE QUESTIONS SINGLES ASK 21
Welcome again to the September edition of our singles world. In this edition, I will be answering questions that singles asked on the dreams that they had, some of which were revelations, about their relationships and marital lives. May the Lord give us insights and understanding in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Question: I am single but I usually have sex in my dreams and I don’t normally recognise the man who comes to sleep with me. I have prayed about it several times but the dream still occurs. How do I overcome it?

Answer: Sex in the dream is not an ordinary dream. It is not a sign of physical maturity as opined by our revered psychologists. It is a sign that you have a spirit husband who comes to sleep with you. It is a deep sign that you have a spiritual home and spirit children. It also shows that you have a covenant with your spiritual husband. In most cases, you may not recognise this evil husband who comes to sleep with you.

It is a violation of your right as a Christian. Even in real life, nobody has the right to sleep with you against your wish. These demonic evil partners violate this right because of your ignorance and sleep with you regularly with impunity. In Genesis 6, the Bible talks about how some evil spirits slept with women on the earth and produced giants as children. It then grieved the heart of God that he had created man. So, God is not pleased that a demon is having sex with you in the dream. Even the married experience it too.

The implications of having sex in the dream are these:

The devil uses it to rob you of your God-given glory and destiny. If you have been destined to become great in life, sex in the dream will rob you of this greatness and give you a degraded and a counterfeit one. Sex in the dream is a destiny changer from good to worse as it reverses one’s glorious destiny.

It is an avenue for the devil to hinder you from getting married in life. The devil wants to make it difficult for you to get a good husband. How? The devil can place on you the spirit of hatred and if anybody looks at you, he will just hate you no matter how beautiful you may be. The devil can mask the person with the head of a he-goat that smells terribly. That will repel whoever that wants to propose to you. The devil can replace your head with a man’s head. When the man wants to propose to you, he will be seeing a man standing before him instead of a woman. Therefore, he will not talk. It can also lead to late marriage or no marriage at all. The aim of the devil is to frustrate your marital life.

In real life, if you are married, can you allow any woman to sleep with your husband? The answer is No! The dream shows that you are married to a spiritual husband in the spirit realm. The jealous spirit husband will not allow any man to come near you, his wife in real life because you are his spirit wife. To this spirit husband, it is like you are committing adultery after getting married to him with legal covenants in the spirit realm.

If you struggle and get married and you have not been delivered, the devil will ensure that you don’t have your own children. The spirit husband will come again to sleep with you when you are pregnant so as to cause miscarriage or stillbirth because you already have spirit children in the spirit realm. Your spirit husband and spirit children will hate these real children and will not want them to survive. That is why they come to sleep with you when you are pregnant in order to abort the pregnancy. To your spirit husband, it is like you are having children out of wedlock which is not acceptable to him. Since it is the spiritual realm that determines the physical realm, your first marriage to this bastard spiritual husband is ‘legal’ and no other marriage must be allowed to compete with it.

Your spirit husband will be fighting your real husband in many ways. He can make the home hot and ungovernable for both of you that you will be experiencing constant quarrelling even on frivolous issues. He will do everything possible to break your marriage so that he can have free access to you his ‘wife.’ Remember, you are being shared by two men who claim you as their wife; one a spirit and the other a human being.

If your physical husband sleeps with you once a week consensually, your spirit husband may sleep with you anytime with or without your consent. You may have two children for your physical husband while you have four children for your spirit husband. It is a serious issue. You may be living in a room and parlour apartment on earth in your physical home while you are living inside the water with your spirit husband and children.

The devil can use sex in the dream to turn a woman’s womb into a sieve or a strainer that cannot retain her husband’s sperm during copulation so that there will be no conception. Such a leaking or perforated womb cannot contain the fertilized ovum both for implantation and for nourishment. Besides, the devil can also pollute the woman’s cervical mucus so that the sperm will not be able to access the uterus.

In some cases, the sperm of the husband can be attacked and destroyed out of envy because it is seen as the seed of his competitor. The devil can also turn the woman’s womb into a cooking pot or a frying pan. Such a woman will be experiencing heat in her stomach most of the time. Consequently, such a womb cannot hold any foetus because of excessive heat.

In the kingdom of darkness, the womb of the woman is being used as a frying pan or as a cooking pot. Sex in the dream can lead to fibroid. No matter the myomectomy (surgical removal of fibroid); fibroid has the tendency to grow again. The solution, for some doctors, is the total removal of the womb through what they call hysterectomy. That means no more babies, and that is what the devil wants. The image of a fibroid always looks like a foetus. What the doctors recommend is that after the fibroid has been removed, the woman should quickly conceive or else the fibroid will grow again. Those who choose not to remove theirs may have regular, heavy and prolonged menstrual flow that may lead to severe anaemia apart from the embarrassment and discomfort that it can cause her.

Please, note that when the spirit husband sleeps with you in the dream, his male genital organ is not the normal human penis that we know. It can be the head of a snake and when that enters into you, it deposits dangerous poisons into your reproductive system that can cause all sorts of gynecological issues some of which we have discussed. It can be the penis of a chimpanzee, monkey or a monster, a dog or a cow. Can you imagine a monkey or a cow sleeping with a woman? It is a real pollution. It will deposit its semen into your body to pollute you and to introduce foreign bodies into your womb and body generally that can cause you very serious health challenges.

However, the Lord is available for your total liberation and deliverance if you will cooperate with Him. The name of Jesus Christ is above any spirit husband. So, don’t be scared of the devil. The Lord will deliver you and you will be free in the name of Jesus Christ. You will be married to your destined husband and your marriage shall be successful in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Solution:
Study these Scriptures: II Cor. 5:17, 2 Cor. 10: 4-5, Ephesians 6:10-18, Isaiah 49: 24-26, Isaiah 54:13-17 and use them to pray.
Salvation: The first thing to do is for you to give your life to Jesus Christ. Without salvation, it will be difficult for you to be set free. Confess your sins to God and ask Him for forgiveness. Turn away from your sins and receive Jesus into your life as your Lord and Saviour.

Deliverance: Go for a thorough deliverance in a Church that has the fire and the genuine anointing of God for deliverance. See the man of God there and let him pray for you. You may be asked to pray and fast for a few days for the deliverance programme. Do that faithfully and obtain your deliverance. Remember, Jesus said in Matthew 17:21 “Howbeit this kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting.”

Holiness: Live a holy life and stay away from sin. If you are living in immoralities such as fornication, adultery, masturbation, lesbianism, uncleanness, nudity, oral sex etc., you have to stop them or else you will not be free from the grip of this spirit husband. Sin opens up our lives for the devil’s invasion but righteousness makes our lives the habitation of the Holy Ghost.

Holy Ghost Baptism: You must be baptized in the Holy Ghost with the evidence of speaking in tongues. Pray often in tongues to develop your spirit man and humiliate the kingdom of darkness.

Prayer and Fasting: Be aggressive in your personal prayer life. Jesus said in Matthew 11:12 “And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it by force.” The devil will not let you go until you exercise your authority over him by force as a child of God. You can also have personal regular prayer and fasting and vigils until you are completely set free. Even when you are free, you have to continue or else the demon may come back. See Matthew 12:43-45.

Warfare Prayers:

Give thanks to God and worship Him for your salvation and for the victory that you have in Christ Jesus and then pray regularly as follows:

I break every evil covenant made between the spirit husband and me consciously and unconsciously in the name of Jesus Christ.

I command, terminate and dissolve every marriage relationship between the spirit husband and me in the kingdom of darkness in the name of Jesus Christ.

I cancel every demonic flow into my life through my foundation in the name of Jesus Christ and I release myself from every satanic pollution during my conception, through evil dedication and exposure to idolatrous and demonic activities in the name of Jesus Christ.

I command the fire of the Holy Ghost to consume all my spirit children if any and I burn my demonic matrimonial home in the kingdom of darkness in the name of Jesus Christ.

Holy Ghost! Let your fire evacuate and consume every evil plantation in my life through sex in the dream and put a permanent separation between the spirit husband and me in the name of Jesus Christ.

Let the fire of God consume all the demonic spirits sent to sleep with me in the dream.

Every good thing that the enemies have taken away from me through sex in the dream, Father return it in the name of Jesus Christ.

Father! Turn me into an untouchable and unquenchable fire for the enemies in the name of Jesus Christ.

Father! I give you thanks for answering your prayers.

By the grace of God, we will continue from here next month. Please, don’t forget to send me your comments and your testimonies. Till then, stay safe and God bless.

Pastor Jide Ajidahun.