Tomi has come with her very wonderful advice to mostly girls this time and trust me, her words will really sink deep. It sank deep into me as i read it and I suggest you share this post with other “single” or “taken” girls. As I said in the previous post, this is Tomi’s opinion, whether or not you agree with her, she is entitled to whatever she says. Still comment, share and enjoy it!
Am I not pretty enough? Am I not good enough? But I’m hot small na and yet all these boys keep “friendzoning” me *sadface*
These are a few of the questions and stuff girls think about when boys aren’t coming their way. But then, I don’t think they ever consider the facts that there is the right time for everything and also God already has a plan for each and every one of us, it’s just for us to key into that notion and run with it.
Girls, you may be the perfect package or let’s just say close and boys still won’t approach you. This is because boys only approach for 2 reasons; they either want to play or they want a real relationship.
A boy who wants to be with you for you and not for some fling will definitely make an effort to know you and make you comfortable with him, in other words, if he ain’t trying then he tripping and you need to kick his ass to the curb!
So if a boy, who you are kicking it with and you know you want a real relationship but the guy keeps beating around the bush bout what he wants, girl, that boy ain’t ready for you, keep it moving. When a boy approaches you, make sure you know him to the deepest level he’s willing to let you know before committing to him. Make sure you guys are on the same page with what you want from the relationship so everyone’s good. (Lol, this has turned to relationship advice)
Girls, when the right boy comes you’d know, cos it’ll be mutual, natural, there won’t be forcing anything cos you both want it. Don’t ever settle for less just because you think you have carried last, remember its not how far but how well. And I’m not saying go all out searching for some 6pac having, all shades of hot +a ginormous bank account while expecting him to be a good Christian brother type of man, lol! Yes these type of men exist, the question is, is he for you? Thus compromise, some girls think compromise is lowering your standards, I think its having 60 or 70% of what you want and making it a 100%. I mean who 6pack epp?
So then girls, with God as your architect, some patience and sometimes a little compromise, the right guy will come. Oh and don’t forget to groom yourself to be the right girl, cos you want a Mr Right!
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